groundhog7s Posted August 6, 2013 Share Posted August 6, 2013 The title kind of says it all. I've decided to leave MMMV soon and will be giving up collecting pretty much altogether. I've had to face some harsh truths about myself recently that I've been avoiding and the avoidance has begun to cost me. The consequences haven't been severe enough for me to have to really respond too much until I lost my job yesterday over something that was entirely my fault and was avoidable. I had been there for 15 years and was fortunate to not only have a steady job, but one with a decent salary, hours and benefits. Of course, that has accelerated my need to begin to reevaluate where I am at and where my actions are leading me and my family. I know that I tend to be obsessive/compulsive when it comes to things and that's very bad when mixed with collecting toys. Obviously, I'll be starting to sell off my collection to support my family while I search for a job, but I know that if I don't make a clean break of things that I'll end up back where I started and that's not something I can do. Not for me and not for my four kids that I'm already seeing behaviors in that are like mine. It's very hard to teach them the value of money or to not be obsessed with worldly possessions when their father has thousands of toys. I can't do that to them any more and set them up for failure and struggles. Anyways, back to the point, I know that if I continue on here that I'll get sucked back in at some point and that then it'll be back to the way it is now and I can't do that. At least not for a long, long time. I want to thank all of you for the interaction over the years and much thanks to Shane and the mods for all that you do. I've been around enough to know there's not another board like this and it's been a pleasure to be on here. I wish you all the best and I hope you all avoid finding yourself in the position I'm in.-Joshua Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
buttheadsmate Posted August 6, 2013 Share Posted August 6, 2013 Gutted .....I'm absolutely gutted by what I've just read . I 'll really miss you . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ninja Mate Posted August 6, 2013 Share Posted August 6, 2013 Good luck, I know how hard it is. Being a local friend, let me know if there is anything I can do! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MisterPL Posted August 6, 2013 Share Posted August 6, 2013 Best of luck. You're doing the right thing for all the right reasons. Take good care of yourself and your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
youbastards Posted August 6, 2013 Share Posted August 6, 2013 I can't echo Rob's sentiment enough. You're a good person, Joshua, and this place won't be the same without you. You'll get back on your feet soon, but know that you are doing the right thing for not only your family, but yourself. Just remember, your job doesn't define who you are, only your family can do that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DSTZach Posted August 6, 2013 Share Posted August 6, 2013 I know where you're coming from, GH. Take care of yourself. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MiniFiend UK Posted August 6, 2013 Share Posted August 6, 2013 Sorry to read that but I do wish you well. When we finally get a squirrel girl minimate I hope you hear about it and smile. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Geohound Posted August 6, 2013 Share Posted August 6, 2013 Holy crap. I'm sorry to hear this. I wish you the best and hope you land on your feet. Best of luck sir. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
monkeycrumb Posted August 6, 2013 Share Posted August 6, 2013 Take care of yourself. It's been a pleasure having you here. I'm sad to see you go, but it's understandable. Be well. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shanester Posted August 6, 2013 Share Posted August 6, 2013 I understand your situation and think you are making the right move. That said, I am sad to see you go. You have been a shining part of our community here and you will be missed. My email is in my profile. Please, keep in touch and let us know how things are going. I wish you the very best. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lurch77 Posted August 6, 2013 Share Posted August 6, 2013 I'll echo what everyone has already expressed; you're a good man GH and a valued part of this community. This board will be a little less bright and unfortunately less nutty (pun intended) without you. Good luck and take care of your family and yourself. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AdyCarter Posted August 6, 2013 Share Posted August 6, 2013 Sad to see you go, while I don't post much I still read most posts and your inputs will be missed. You're doing it for the right reasons though. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
karamazov80 Posted August 6, 2013 Share Posted August 6, 2013 (edited) Damn Joshua. Ditto what Rob said. You are one of the most important members of this community and it is like a punch in the gut to hear you are leaving. But like others are saying, I can also empathize with your situation, and in some ways am envious of your making a clean break. You'll be missed. Thanks for sharing your time with us for as long as you have. Edited August 6, 2013 by karamazov80 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lobsterman Posted August 6, 2013 Share Posted August 6, 2013 This is a heartbreaker – not just to lose such a vital part of our community, but for the reasons you've described. That's the double-edged sword of collecting: it's something that brings you so much joy, and it can at the same time get out of control and bring you such grief. You're one of the reasons I come on the board every day, Joshua. You're a bright, enthusiastic, fun, and boundlessly generous member of the board, and I'll very be sorry not to see you around. I wish you the best and am confident you'll find your feet and get things straightened out. Know there are a lot of people here who care about you and are here if you ever need to talk. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
boyd Posted August 6, 2013 Share Posted August 6, 2013 You'll be missed around here, but you're doing a good thing. Don't forget that. Take care of your family and yourself. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mohawk_Jones Posted August 6, 2013 Share Posted August 6, 2013 Sorry to see you go. Best wishes to you and your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hellpop Posted August 6, 2013 Share Posted August 6, 2013 It's really sad to see you go, Josh. You've always been one of my favorite members here, and one of the guys that really makes this place a unique online community. That said, I respect and understand your decision. I understand your need for making a clean break; sometimes, I wish I had the same resolve. I'm sure I speak for most of us when I say to let us know if we can do anything, particularly while you're job hunting. Let us know when you'll be selling stuff on eBay, or maybe just give us your seller id so that we can track you. Good luck, take care, and our prayers are with you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Donny B Posted August 6, 2013 Share Posted August 6, 2013 I applaud your decision, for exactly the reasons everyone else has listed. it's tough letting go of something you love, but when family is the reasoning, then it is a noble act. Best of luck to you! you will definitely be missed Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kostisfire Posted August 6, 2013 Share Posted August 6, 2013 Colecting is this double edged sword. It has its benefits like joy and the fact that many collectibles rise in value but it also can prove to be a serious obstacle. I wish you the best of luck. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pawcanada Posted August 6, 2013 Share Posted August 6, 2013 I'm truly sorry to hear about the circumstances regarding you losing your job. All the best to you and your family and I hope you're able to get back on your feet soon. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blacksun1520 Posted August 6, 2013 Share Posted August 6, 2013 Sorry to hear you are leaving, but as everyone else has said, it is for good reasons and you are doing the right thing for your family. My collecting was partially to blame for loosing my job a few years ago, so I completely understand where you are coming from. I wish you all the best. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
winkerbean Posted August 6, 2013 Share Posted August 6, 2013 Sorry to hear to hear your news, take care, all the best Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stegron01 Posted August 6, 2013 Share Posted August 6, 2013 Yeah very sorry to hear this. We've never really interacted personally but you are someone whose posts that I always enjoy and am interested to read. All the best with your job hunt etc. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
UK Collector Posted August 6, 2013 Share Posted August 6, 2013 All the best Joshua. Sorry to see you go, but you gotta do what you gotta do. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MINI_MYTE Posted August 6, 2013 Share Posted August 6, 2013 Best of luck GH7S. I hope you get your life back on track soon. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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