i think the biggest reason that i come hear is that i love the intelligent conversation( even though i don't add to it all that much) and the friendly people... oh and to make fun of deadpool
after reading this thread i realised that i might have said / done some of the things that you mentioned and i just wanted to say that if i offended some one it was not intentional and i will try harder in the future to think before i post.
c.s.