I tried disputing the charge with AFX but no dice-so I filed a dispute with my credit card company. They are usually good at handling things like this, it just takes time to go through the right channels...
The first thing I did was double check my "ship to" address and it was correct. I have no idea where AFX got California... and I wish I could track where the package went myself, but I never received a tracking number, email confirmation, or anything...
I may go the BBB or AGO route though...it sounds like a good idea....
Thanks for all the helpful suggestions Rheul and hypno